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The Daddy Complex: Things To Worry About

thedaddycomplex:

F. Scott Fitzgerald ended a letter to his 11-year-old daughter with this list of simple life advice. Though it was written in 1933, I think the points hold up. And not just for daughters, but everyone… Yes, adults, too. (From Letters of Note, via newdadsstrut)

Things to worry about:

For Truman, and everyone.

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If you are a parent, or a human, you should read this.

My wife and I had an exceptional experience at CHOP during her very difficult pregnancy.  I cannot imagine the same doctors who helped us so ably and compassionately being associated with the callousness this mother describes.  I can only hope that there is some answer that satisfies the instantaneous rage that a blog post like this elicits.  

Can there be a logical explanation?  A misunderstanding?  I hope so.

Much love to Amelia and her parents.

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vicemag:

The Author of SOPA Is a Copyright Violator
US Congressman and poor-toupee-color-chooser Lamar Smith is the guy who authored the Stop Online Piracy Act. SOPA, as I’m sure you know, is the shady bill that will introduce way harsher penalties for companies and individuals caught violating copyright laws online (including making the unauthorized streaming of copyrighted content a crime which you could actually go to jail for). If the bill passes, it will destroy the internet and, ultimately, turn the world into Mad Max (for more info, go here).
I decided to check that everything on Lamar’s official campaign website was copyright-cleared and on the level. Lamar is using several stock images on his site, two of which I tracked back to the same photographic agency. I contacted the agency to make sure he was paying to use them, but was told that it’s very difficult for them to actually check to see if someone has permission to use their images. (Great news, copyright violators!) However, seeing as they’re both from the same agency and are unwatermarked, it seems fairly likely that he is the only person on the entire internet who is actually paying to use a stock image (and he’d be an idiot not to).
So I took a look back at an archived, pre-SOPA version of his site.
Above is a screenshot of his site as it appeared on the 24th of July, 2011.

And this is the background image Lamar was using. I managed to track that picture back to DJ Schulte, the photographer who took it.
And whaddya know? Looks like someone forgot to credit him.
I contacted DJ, to find out if Lamar had asked permission to use the image and he told me that he had no record of Lamar, or anyone from his organization, requesting permission to use it: “I switched my images from traditional copyright protection to be protected under the Creative Commons license a few years ago, which simply states that they can use my images as long as they attribute the image to me and do not use it for commercial purposes.
“I do not see anywhere on the screen capture that you have provided that the image was attributed to the source (me). So my conclusion would be that Lamar Smith’s organization did improperly use my image. So according to the SOPA bill, should it pass, maybe I could petition the court to take action against www.texansforlamarsmith.com.”
Oh dear. Luckily for DJ, there are people out there like Lamar making new laws to protect the little guy against online copyright theft. Keep fighting that good fight, Lamar!
We’ve contacted the office of Lamar Smith and are waiting on a response.
Follow Jamie on Twitter: @JLCT

vicemag:

The Author of SOPA Is a Copyright Violator

US Congressman and poor-toupee-color-chooser Lamar Smith is the guy who authored the Stop Online Piracy Act. SOPA, as I’m sure you know, is the shady bill that will introduce way harsher penalties for companies and individuals caught violating copyright laws online (including making the unauthorized streaming of copyrighted content a crime which you could actually go to jail for). If the bill passes, it will destroy the internet and, ultimately, turn the world into Mad Max (for more info, go here).

I decided to check that everything on Lamar’s official campaign website was copyright-cleared and on the level. Lamar is using several stock images on his site, two of which I tracked back to the same photographic agency. I contacted the agency to make sure he was paying to use them, but was told that it’s very difficult for them to actually check to see if someone has permission to use their images. (Great news, copyright violators!) However, seeing as they’re both from the same agency and are unwatermarked, it seems fairly likely that he is the only person on the entire internet who is actually paying to use a stock image (and he’d be an idiot not to).

So I took a look back at an archived, pre-SOPA version of his site.

Above is a screenshot of his site as it appeared on the 24th of July, 2011.


And this is the background image Lamar was using. I managed to track that picture back to DJ Schulte, the photographer who took it.

And whaddya know? Looks like someone forgot to credit him.

I contacted DJ, to find out if Lamar had asked permission to use the image and he told me that he had no record of Lamar, or anyone from his organization, requesting permission to use it: “I switched my images from traditional copyright protection to be protected under the Creative Commons license a few years ago, which simply states that they can use my images as long as they attribute the image to me and do not use it for commercial purposes.

“I do not see anywhere on the screen capture that you have provided that the image was attributed to the source (me). So my conclusion would be that Lamar Smith’s organization did improperly use my image. So according to the SOPA bill, should it pass, maybe I could petition the court to take action against www.texansforlamarsmith.com.”

Oh dear. Luckily for DJ, there are people out there like Lamar making new laws to protect the little guy against online copyright theft. Keep fighting that good fight, Lamar!

We’ve contacted the office of Lamar Smith and are waiting on a response.

Follow Jamie on Twitter: @JLCT

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Update on the PC Richard situation

Ahoy.

After two months of politely asking tens of PC Richard’s employees to help me get my dryer fixed/replaced, all it took was three hours of blackout rage and a twitter war to get the job done lickety-split.

Along the way, I met a fellow on twitter who interceded on behalf of PC Richard, said I looked like a gay suicide bomber, demonstrated a true ignorance of the working of English, and touted his work at Best Buy for no discernible reason.

Thanks to my friends who piled on and surely expedited the process by increasing the pressure felt by whoever handles the PC Richard twitter account.

Search @mjckayne on twitter to read my meltdown.  All in all, a ridiculous situation.  Unfortunate moral of the story: stuff gets done when you pitch a fit.

M

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My email to PC Richards.
I have been back and forth with them over a period of two months.  Finally started tweeting at them today, and that seems to have gotten their attention.  Incredible that I paid almost $200 for a service contract that has gotten me nowhere, but calling them out on twitter got an immediate response.
Apparently they’re going to deliver it today, but I’ve heard that literally TEN times already.
Merry whatever.

(click on hi-res in the bottom left hand corner to read the email)

My email to PC Richards.

I have been back and forth with them over a period of two months.  Finally started tweeting at them today, and that seems to have gotten their attention.  Incredible that I paid almost $200 for a service contract that has gotten me nowhere, but calling them out on twitter got an immediate response.

Apparently they’re going to deliver it today, but I’ve heard that literally TEN times already.

Merry whatever.

(click on hi-res in the bottom left hand corner to read the email)

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Have A Toast

“I have not suggested any investigations.”  Damn straight.  2 years and 2 months in and we’ve just ditched the neurologist, or he ditched us.  Not something the typical parent rejoices over, but this letter elicited a few high-fives.

Today is a sleep-in day for my wife, who never gets sleep-in days.  Truman is singing along to “Rolling in the Deep”, but I know he’s waiting for Kanye’s “Runaway” to come on.  When the beat drops, he goes nuts.  

When he’s flying me to the nursing home in his hovercar, I’ll tell him about this morning for the thousandth time and get all the details wrong.  ”I know, dad.”  I understand the treasure of memory now.  How something so unremarkable is everything.

I say “cheers” and he raises his sippy cup to clink my mug.  Not bad.

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No big deal, but Mayor Bloomberg named yesterday “Advantage Testing Day” in New York City, after the tutoring company I work for.   Proclamation pics included.  Also included, a pic of my place card for table 14.

NERDZ FO LIFE.

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thedailywhat:

Urban Improv of the Day: Improv Everywhere’s latest mission finds agents breaking out in “spontaneous” song near the Sit on Santa’s Lap section at a shopping mall in New Jersey.

[i|e.]

Another IE mission that I had a chance to participate in.  Fun. 

Improv Everywhere: Giving my Grandma something to show her friends since 2009.

(couple pretty serious shots of the wife and kid in this one too)

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Amazing cover.
newyorker:

In this week’s issue: Mattathias Schwartz on the origins of Occupy Wall Street; George Packer profiles Peter Thiel; Raffi Khatchadourian talks to JR, the French street artist; and more: http://nyr.kr/Ln2M

Amazing cover.

newyorker:

In this week’s issue: Mattathias Schwartz on the origins of Occupy Wall Street; George Packer profiles Peter Thiel; Raffi Khatchadourian talks to JR, the French street artist; and more: http://nyr.kr/Ln2M

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thedailywhat:

Caught On Camera of the Day: Last week we learned that Scott Olsen was not the only Iraq war veteran severely injured at the Occupy Oakland raid on October 25th.

32-year-old Kayvan Sabeghi suffered a lacerated spleen after being beaten by Oakland PD officers near the protesters’ encampment in Frank Ogawa Plaza. He was taken to jail and reportedly denied medical attention for 18 hours, despite having visible wounds and complaining of strong pain.

Friend and business partner Esther Goodstal told the Associated Press after the incident that Sabeghi was not involved with Occupy Oakland, and was returning home from dinner the night of the raid.

She claimed at the time that he had come across a line of police outside his apartment, and was not allowed through. Just-surfaced video from the night in question shows Sabeghi nonviolently confronting the officers, thought it is unclear if he was being prevented from passing through.

It is quite clear, however, that the beating he received was unprovoked and wildly disproportionate.

Sabehgi can be heard telling a police officer that he is a war vet just before being struck by a baton. Photographer Neil Rivas, who captured the footage and was witness to the entire incident, says Sabehgi did nothing to warrant such a response.

“There were no curse words,” he told The Guardian. “He was telling them he was a war vet, a resident of Oakland, a business owner.” Rivas added that, even while he was being beaten, Sabehgi still didn’t fight back.

An Oakland PD spokeswoman said the incident was being investigated.

[guardian.]

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This Life

With Kit, Age 7, at the Beach


We would climb the highest dune, 
from there to gaze and come down: 
the ocean was performing; 
we contributed our climb. 

Waves leapfrogged and came 
straight out of the storm. 
What should our gaze mean? 
Kit waited for me to decide. 

Standing on such a hill, 
what would you tell your child? 
That was an absolute vista. 
Those waves raced far, and cold. 

“How far could you swim, Daddy, 
in such a storm?” 
“As far as was needed,” I said, 
and as I talked, I swam. 

-William Stafford

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thedailywhat:

Rich Get Richer of the Day: According to a Roll Call analysis of Congress members’ financial disclosure forms, the collective net worth of American lawmakers jumped 25 percent to over $2 billion in just the last two years — with 50 of the richest Congressmen and women accounting for 90 percent of the increase.
In 2008, the minimum net worth of House Members was just over $1 billion. In 2010, it rose to $1.26 billion. Senators experienced a more modest increase during this same time period, going from $651 million in 2008 to $784 million last year.
Roll Call notes that the real net worth of individual members is likely higher, since their estimates do not take into account non-income-generating properties such as private homes. Also, members are only required to disclose the minimum value of their assets — meaning, the actual value “may be much higher.”
Among other interesting facts: Senate Democrats are significantly wealthier than their Republican counterparts, while the opposite holds true in the House. Additionally, 78 percent of Congress’s total net worth is concentrated among 50 of its richest Members.
Don’t weep for the less-fortunate Members just yet: At least 196 House and Senate members are millionaires.
Any way you slice it, the average Congress Member is a serious chunk of change richer than the average citizen of the country he or she was elected to run: Congress’s median net worth last year was $513,000, which the median net worth among American households was around $100,000 — a number which, according to the Federal Reserve Board, has dropped by $20,000 since 2008.
[rollcall / image: sirmitchell.]

Money in politics.  

thedailywhat:

Rich Get Richer of the Day: According to a Roll Call analysis of Congress members’ financial disclosure forms, the collective net worth of American lawmakers jumped 25 percent to over $2 billion in just the last two years — with 50 of the richest Congressmen and women accounting for 90 percent of the increase.

In 2008, the minimum net worth of House Members was just over $1 billion. In 2010, it rose to $1.26 billion. Senators experienced a more modest increase during this same time period, going from $651 million in 2008 to $784 million last year.

Roll Call notes that the real net worth of individual members is likely higher, since their estimates do not take into account non-income-generating properties such as private homes. Also, members are only required to disclose the minimum value of their assets — meaning, the actual value “may be much higher.”

Among other interesting facts: Senate Democrats are significantly wealthier than their Republican counterparts, while the opposite holds true in the House. Additionally, 78 percent of Congress’s total net worth is concentrated among 50 of its richest Members.

Don’t weep for the less-fortunate Members just yet: At least 196 House and Senate members are millionaires.

Any way you slice it, the average Congress Member is a serious chunk of change richer than the average citizen of the country he or she was elected to run: Congress’s median net worth last year was $513,000, which the median net worth among American households was around $100,000 — a number which, according to the Federal Reserve Board, has dropped by $20,000 since 2008.

[rollcall / image: sirmitchell.]

Money in politics.  

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melaniehamlett:

This is the video that proves Oakland police shot a tear gas canister in the face of an Iraq war vet (who was just standing there, doing nothing by the way).  He is now getting brain surgery and is in critical condition.  This is what a police state looks like.

This happened in the United States.  

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diamondlionny:

This week, Fran Gillespie, Morgan Jarrett and Terry Withers join the Lion for some old-fashioned hijinks, fun times and recreational drug use.  Jaime Hazan on keys!!!

GOnnA bE OfF ThE CHaIN.

Tickets by clicking HERE.  Free with UCB ID!!!!!

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diamondlionny:

Airwolf’s Emily Axford and The Stepfathers’ Connor Ratliff join us this Friday at 730 at UCB EAST! Wowee-zowee!

These images come up when you image search their names, so these images must be accurate representations of the their physical appearances!  CRRRRAZZZY.

Tickets here: http://east.ucbtheatre.com/shows/view/2431

I loooove Connor’s hair in this pic.

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